There are millions of assumptions about wives and their behavior all across the world,
Many say that they are torture, many believe that they are dominant and many even consider them dictators of their family but isn’t that justified because they leave everything for you and come to your abode just your love and to take care of your family.
Women are the biggest mystery to understand and it’s very difficult to understand them and this is what makes the task of managing wives,
Even more, harder and complex so here we present you several ways to manage your love life in utmost perfect manner.
- Understand her loneliness.
- Be supportive
- Help her in being comfortable
- Help her in household work
- Discover and explore her.
- Make her feel wanted.
- Promote her talents and interests.
- Surprise her.
- Unplanned holidays could be a booster to your relationship
- Give her space.
- Stay calm
- 1 Understand her loneliness:
- 1.1 Be supportive:
- 1.2 Help her in being comfortable:
- 1.3 Help her in household work:
- 1.4 Discover and explore her:
- 1.5 Make her feel more wanted:
- 1.6 Promote her talents and interest:
- 1.7 Surprise her:
- 1.8 Unplanned holidays can be a booster to your relationship:
- 1.9 Give her space:
- 1.10 Stay calm:
Understand her loneliness:
She has come to a new place, leaving her name, her.
Family and her home all better.
Everything is new to her and this makes her feel very lonely. She has no one to discuss her problems and thoughts with, she is held with
She has no one to discuss her problems and thoughts with, she is held with lots of responsibilities and absolutely no clue from where to start,
So you are her only shining armor in all this darkness help her in adjusting and talk to her be a bit easy to deal with so that she can discuss her problems with you and you become good friends in no time.
Do not leave her on her own, She doesn’t know anyone in your family, just be with her and help her in knowing everyone.
Maybe in early stage some of your family members may not like her, so let her know how can she improve her or what she should to impress everyone,
So as to gain trust and respect among your family members.
Help her in being comfortable:
It may be possible that she is not comfortable with certain habits like smoking,
Drinking or loud music or any such thing so try to avoid it in front of her to make her feel a bit more comfortable and cared later on,
when she is in love with you will automatically be a bit friendly in her behavior and you both can find a midway to maintain your habits, likes, and dislikes.
Help her in household work:
Before marriage, she never used to the household work,
When she is in your home she is expected to devote herself completely to the household work but that’s completely unfair,
So just to feel her that both of you are married and you both carry equal responsibility try to help her in her household work.
Discover and explore her:
You both are partially or completely strangers in some of the way so try to find ways to figure out the folds of each other’s personality and try to find each other’s strength and weaknesses,
So that, later on, you can easily handle each other ‘s emotions and develop more compatible understanding.
Make her feel more wanted:
Girls like to be treated well and they rejoice the feeling of being special to someone, so try to do certain activities to show your love,
It could be gifts, it could any surprise, it could be anything which you feel will make her happy.
This will help you in making an easy binding with her and probably you both will develop an interest in each other.
Promote her talents and interest:
Before she got marked she must have created few career plans and maybe she has few ambitions in her mind,
So try to discover her talents and let her follow her dreams as an individual and develop herself.
Appreciate her whenever she is depressed or sad and This will help you in getting more closer to her.
Everyone like surprises an unexpected and non-occasional gift or activity which makes her smile and fill her heart with joy and happiness is the best option to get closer and understand her in a much better way.
Unplanned holidays can be a booster to your relationship:
Romantic holidays will make your love life more indulging and happy,
She comes in your life to share everything with you so share beautiful moments with her on long holidays in beautiful beaches or snowy desert.
These will later in becoming the moments which you will relish later on in life.
Maybe this is the time when you turn into soul mates from friends.
It’s the charm of these moments which will help in the easy bonding of both of you and make her feel loved and more wanted.
Give her space:
Before she got married she went out on holidays with her besties,
She had dreams to discover new things and spent time with her parents and many more hobbies,
So let her fly and do not try to change her,
Let her be the way she is and accept her with all her pros and cons.
This will make her feel satisfied and she will not blame your entire life for bonding her and not letting her do what she wished.
Obviously, both of you may differ at certain points but this doesn’t mean but you should scream or about,
Just be calm and communicate your thoughts and opinion and find out a midway to solve the problem.
This way you will not hamper the peace of your mind and get a constructive solution to your problem.
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At the end, women are tough to understand but once discovered completely they are the most beautiful creation of God,
So discover her slow and steady may be you unfold the hidden magic.
After all these things now you know ‘how to manage wife after marriage .’